The Positive Masculine Ep.13: Identity Politics and How to Avoid Them

Identity Politics is a means by which we pigeonhole people based on class, gender, race, sexuality, religion, politics, or philosophy, and use that pigeonhole to decide the worth of their experience and ideas.

This intellectual construct serves only to destroy ideas and stifle dialogue through illogical attacks on people based on accidents of birth, rather than considering ideas based on their supporting facts and cultural or moral merit.

As a narrative it also politicizes every aspect of one’s person, preventing us from thinking and defining our own experiences, and creating positive and meaningful identities for ourselves. We become roles rather than people, with a high personal cost.

The (at least temporary) rejection of Identity Politics is the first step to creating a positive masculinity, or indeed a positive identity of any kind.

I am particularly thankful today for the inspiring works of Stardusk, Karen Straugham (Girl Writes What), Asha James (Typhon Blue), Davis Aurini… these people never fail to make me hungry for learning in the same way my professors did. And, as always, I am thankful to my parents, who helped me pass through University without debt, and encouraged my choices, however unconventional they were.

The Positive Masculine Ep.12: Drive and the Pyramid of Wellness

Episode 12 of the Positive Masculine, where I talk about how having a mission affects your life for the better by increasing your drive. I also discuss a new idea model in development to help people keep healthy and focused.

Special thanks in this video go to: The Lunchtime Talkers Toastmasters club, Ann Piasecki, Stacey Lynn Mitchell, Athol Kay, and Jeff Kropman. Thank you all for encouragement and inspiration.

The Positive Masculine ep.11: Men in the Type II Civilization

Men are undergoing a major role transition. people with a narrow view on masculinity think of it as the obsolescence of masculinity or the “End of Men.” This is far from the truth. What we are instead seeing is the dark before the dawn, as we move to a post-scarcity and post-survival economy. In this new “Type II Civilization” Men will be applied to something very different than merely protection or provision. They will be world changers.

The Positive Masculine ep.10: On Mens’ Emotions

Men express emotions in a very different way than Women do, and in recent years this has lead us to treat Men as if they were emotionally inferior, or even as if they had no feelings at all.

The truth is that Men are every bit as emotionally competent as Women, but they are also very different from them. Men Master their emotions rather than dwelling in them, because that is how our bodies have been honed by human evolution. The way in which we express ourselves ensures our health and mental stability.

To expect Men to emote like women is to harm them, and make demands to privileges to which no one is welcome. Nor is the emotionalization of the workplace a practice that serves Men or Women well.

A new etiquette, and the return of all-male spaces, combined with a genuine respect for the feelings of Men is required for Men to return to a healthy Masculine balance with their feelings.